Can you ?

A person would laugh for love, and a person would cry for being love. But a person would always smile in front of others for love. What a fake! Situations like this always occur and will not stop. A true friend will be always beside to help. I have many friends who willing to help me. But they have their own problems too. They don’t really trust in their friendship. This is because they have been hurt before. 

Actually a true friendship is not depending on how long time you spend with them, is being caring them. The type of caring, do not misunderstood, a caring can be just a few words just to make people feel that you still have him/she as your friend. We are very lucky, as we have bunch of friends. Although sometimes you think this situation is not the reality, but why not just trust it once? Maybe you have tried once, why not just giving yourself another chance to accept them? 

You may think that such caring is not enough. Do not ever try to reach the top of the mountain before you explore and discover the condition of the mountain. That’s impossible! If you have a helicopter, is also difficult for you as you don’t know the mountain well. And one more, climbing mountain is not easy. There are rocks and mud all along the road. Be careful! Hurts are required when climbing the mountain. There are no such things that climbing the mountain safely. You will hurt your legs and hands when you are climbing on stones and rocks. You will hurt your body when you try overcoming the slippery mud road. And there are still some unsuspected substance such as snakes and bears in the forest. Be strong! A person, who dying for top of the mountain, will stand up again. Try again! Once not enough, then another try! 

In mountain, there could be landslides. It is just like telling you to stop. Such of hurt feelings come to you. You ask yourself, do I really can’t reach the top of the mountain? No! do not ever think in such ways. There are words which do not purposely hurt you and stop you. Is just yourself. Is you, who think so. A word evil can be just a word. Are you really evil? If you are born evil, then why you have such energy, time and the willing to climb up the mountain? A person who does not have any goals is evil, as just know how to eat and sleep. You are not, my friend! You tried hard, I notice that. Evil? You say you are joking, then can it be just a joke instead? Why don’t you think so? Words can be twisted. And you really think it too serious. People say you think something too serious, is true! The loss of confidence in yourself, you are joking and people joke too, then why are you so serious? 

Time is needed. To get to the top, is not easy. But is not impossible! A true friend and a close friend, they sometimes might hurt you. However, they will not leave you. How to tighten up the bond? Just use some ropes? Or use some chemical reactions? Just use your heart. Smile from the bottom of the heart to others will do. An unfamiliar topic to you. You will stay quiet in a corner. Yes, is true that you do not know what to say. Sometimes just ask some questions, shout to those peoples who climb half way on the mountain. Ask them how to climb? Ask more questions, can I join you all? Ask more, to join you all what I need to do? So, just ask! You know what is ask? You probably can join them as you have a sincere heart to ask what is happening. The person, who I know last time, is willing to ask any questions and take challenges. Why can’t you apply it on climbing mountain? You scare you will fall, again. But just stop when you feel pain, will you be successful? 

The main point, trust in others. Trust yourself too. Hello my friend! The words I say, is it helpful? I don’t know. But what I know, I am just concern about you, my friend! And these are just some words. Is just words! You need to think it again and again. But what I am telling you is true, because the mountain you have discovered last time, will give you a guide to climb a higher mountain. And your foot prints will always stick on the path ways to the top of the mountain. So? Why do you need to stress yourself using phases such as what is passed is already past? Everything will change in the world. But friendship will not change if you still concern about it. Like what I say, just a small care and smile will do. Do not need too much of flowers or gifts as in love. In friendship, you just need hands and legs, to give some help to others and walk towards others. Can you?